For when being reasonable stops working.
The podcast and the book for people whose willingness to be reasonable is being used against them.
Some divorces are mutual. Two people who agree it is over and want out cleanly. The standard advice works for them. This is for everyone else. If your spouse treats every conversation like a negotiation, every concession like an opening, and every delay like a strategy, you are in a one-sided divorce. Nobody prepares you for that. This does.

The Quiz

Under enough pressure, everyone breaks in one of two directions. Some people fold. Some people detonate. Seven questions, two minutes, and you will know which mistake the pressure is built to push you toward, and which chapter of the book to read first.

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The Podcast

Every divorce runs two games at once. Your attorney handles the outer one: the motions, the conferences, the paperwork. This podcast is about the inner one, the game only you can play. Staying steady when every message is bait. Deciding from clarity instead of panic. From a lawyer who has spent 25 years inside high-conflict family law and has watched the inner game decide more cases than the outer one. No scripts. No theory. How to keep your mind while the process is trying to take it.


The Book

Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind by Corey Shapiro

Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind is the field guide to the divorce nobody warns you about. The one where being reasonable stops working. Read it before your first consultation and you will understand more than most people do at their final court date.

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About Corey Shapiro

Corey Shapiro, author of Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind

Corey Shapiro wrote Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind after 25 years inside high-conflict family law, first as a child of divorce, then as a divorce attorney and mediator. He watched the process break his own family before he ever stepped into a courtroom. The book and the podcast come from the same place: what he wishes someone had told the people he loves before it started.