For when being reasonable stops working.
The podcast and the book for people whose willingness to be reasonable is being used against them.
Some divorces are mutual. Two people who agree it is over and want out cleanly. The standard advice works for them. This is for everyone else. If your spouse treats every conversation like a negotiation, every concession like an opening, and every delay like a strategy, you are in a one-sided divorce. Nobody prepares you for that. This does.
The Podcast
Every divorce runs two games at once. Your attorney handles the outer one: the motions, the conferences, the paperwork. This podcast is about the inner one, the game only you can play. Staying steady when every message is bait. Deciding from clarity instead of panic. From a lawyer who has spent 25 years inside high-conflict family law and has watched the inner game decide more cases than the outer one. No scripts. No theory. How to keep your mind while the process is trying to take it.
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The Book
Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind is the field guide to the divorce nobody warns you about. The one where being reasonable stops working. Read it before your first consultation and you will understand more than most people do at their final court date.